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especting your needs, desires and boundaries is essential to your well-being. When you haven’t trained such an inner muscle, it can be quite challenging. It can take a lot of courage. Especially if you have people pleasing and sacrificial mother archetype tendencies.
Trust me, I speak from experience.
And yet, when you do choose this path of self-love, these recurrent and brave acts allow you to solidify your relationship with yourself and deepen your roots for what you lovingly stand for. Mind you, it can feel uncomfortable because often times, it impacts others. And yet, there is no other way to an integral life than to listen to your inner knowing and body wisdom.
Your body and intuition know when things resonate to you or not. They are incredible compasses that are here to serve you. In a simple fashion:
● When you feel into your body and a contraction arises, it can mean: “No, this doesn’t sit well with me.” It feels unsettling in the body.
● When you feel into your body and an expansion arises, it can mean: “Yes, this truly lights me up.” It feels relaxing in the body.
We are somewhat “tested” every day for what we will accept and welcome into our lives. Deep respect for yourself is key. And only you know which doors open to your Truth.
Right now, I am forgiving myself for all the times I said yes to please others rather than myself. I am forgiving myself for all the times I did not listen to my body, to my inner guidance which led me to suffer more than thrive. Forgiving yourself is a deeply enriching self-love practice, creating room for self-trust again.
The courageous invitation is:
~ Feel into and notice your bodily signals when they arise
~ Trust your inner guidance, your intuition and the message it is revealing to you
~ Remind yourself that you are meant to respect your needs, desires and boundaries
~ Courageously say:
NO to ways that lead to self-abandonment
YES to ways that fully empower you
MAYBE when you need time to reflect.
The Wild & Sacred Feminine Way is here to remind you to celebrate yourself for these tough, sometimes heart-breaking decisions. Ultimately, you are meant to serve your highest good and only you know, deep down, what truly resonates. It is now time to step into your full Power! Courage your way 🌀